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The recent stir concerning teen bully in school campus
has raised a red flag toward many concern groups. Consequently,
an increasing number of proactive attempts have called
forth to combat this age-old teen challenge among those
who are commonly labeled as "nerd", the weak
and unpopular. We, at the HKCS, share the rage and respond
promptly.
Bullying,
a form of verbal and physical harassment and intimidation
that advocates "the survival of the fittest"
in a twisted sense, undoubtedly carries a certain level
of negative and damaging effects on those who are victimized.
To support the combat of such practice of violence in
and outside of school campus, our Youth Integrated Team
has initiated a series of activities targeting to draw
young people together in unity and to fight against
this destructive force amongst their peers.
One of these activities was 'The Yellow Ribbon Movement
& Alliance of the Righteous'. Our social workers
began the movement in Shamshuipo by collecting signatures
from the residents in the protest of School Bully. Forty-two
campuses in 4 different school districts also joined
in to form such alliance in advocating the positive
message of love and peace in school. Some ardent members
of our youth integrated team and students from other
outfits simultaneously formed an anti-bully care group
to promote the same message while a website for free
expressions among their peers on this issue was set
in motion by this group of keen youngsters.
On 21 February, we co-organized a discussion panel
on "Teenage Bully" with the Radio Television
Hong Kong, hoping to rouse a greater awareness on the
issue from the community. Besides our own social worker,
other panel members included professionals such as school
principal; educational psychologist and legal representative.
Close to a hundred teenagers attended that event where
some of the feelings from actual experiences or friends
of victims were openly and boldly shared.
Our School Social Work Service has been working closely
with schools and therefore not only does it understand,
but also has it great compassion over such issue. As
a result, we tailor made a seminar on 16 March for school
personnel (i.e., school principal, counselor and staff)
to deal with the bully issue by addressing the school's
legal responsibility, introducing effective ways to
prevent such behavior among students and bringing in
advises from the police department. Furthermore, we
put up a training workshop on 29 March for teachers
to learn some practical and effective skills in handling
difficult parents.
While
"Bully at School" has been a neglected problem
for a long time. Victims have since fallen into quiet
destruction and lives have been destroyed as a result
of the society's failure to recognize the depth of its
negative impact. It is time for a united front formed
by all concern parties including parents, schools, social
and professional groups to face and strive to eliminate
this subtle yet deadly force that infiltrates among
our children.
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